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The Necessary Fictions of Quotidian Existence
Or
Michelle Remembers

07DEC 1999

Michelle Citron's Home Movies and Other Necessary Fictions, the fourth volume in the Visible Evidence series, is a most powerful and painful text. At its core is the story of coming to terms with a terrible secret, hidden and inaccessible like a germ in the memory. A time bomb waiting to spill its virulent contents into waking consciousness and illuminate a horror we refuse to recognize or accept. Michelle drags this secret out into the open and names it incest, yet she does it in a way which respects the plasticity of memory, the limitation of words, while all the while pointing to the wisdom of the body, and the power behind representation. From the title and quotations preceding the sections to the dialogue between the, personal narrative and the critique of the medium in the first section, the text is tightly constructed and on the whole emotionally compelling. Most importantly though, it is one person's story about a personal holocaust that asks important questions about the nature of memory, psychosomatic illness, and the sexual censorship in our culture. It tells the story of incest, so that others can take courage from that honesty and begin to tell their own stories.
In the first section there is a dialogue between the personal and the social regarding home movies and their ability to act as surrogate memories for the family. These home movies "signify..."authenticity": an objective recording of an actual event captured by the home movie camera" (17). But this is only part of the story, home movies, more often than naught, record the stories we want to tell, and leave out those things that we prefer to remain unacknowledged. "This information outside the frame is a constant reminder that home movies are highly selective in what they show" (19). In the personal narrative Michelle lets us in on the techniques she uses in the film Daughter Rite, with faux documentary and use of these home movies to "bring into relief yet another fiction: the separation between documentary, experimental, and narrative fiction film" (16). Her fascination with film as she sees it relates to her desire to become the father, to control the power of representation, or "stand outside the scene - in the space of safety ... where (she) can't be touched" (6).
What follows this dialogue is a narrative within a fiction. The narrative. is in the form of an autobiography detailing the "unspeakable" or nasty horror of her incest at the hands of her matemal grandfather. The fiction is the story of two Doras; who function as two parts of a whole sundered by the same nasty horror. And only when as Judith Herman suggests the ghosts of folk memory tell their stories can they rest in their grave (3 1) and escape the 'hysterics of reminiscences' (32). One of the most important passages in the book relates to the retreat of Freud from his hypothesis concerning childhood sexual assault, it bears repeating:

Symptoms are signs that can be read. The are communications of the body that bypass words and
consciousness. It was Freud who hypothesized what was being communicated - information concerning
childhood sexual assault, abuse and incest. But this theory was too disturbing. As has been well argued
elsewhere, the implications of his work - the widespread sexual abuse of children from respectable middle
class families - couldn't be tolerated by Freud or the medical status quo. His work was met with silence.
No one wanted to hear what he had to say. Freud reinterpreted the case studies into a theory of the
unconscious that reread the symptoms not of real sexual trauma, but as signs of repressed fantasies and
desires. The idea became one of the cornerstones of psychoanalytical theory. Whether you believe Freud
replaced the external reality of incest with the psychic reality of fantasy, or just expanded his ideas to
include the psychic reality, the consequences where the same. Actual incest was denied; fantasy much
easier to tolerate than the possibility of widespread incest was accepted (33).

This is not the only time Freud changed his theories because of potential social distress over sexuality. In both cases he effectively transferred the responsibility for mental disease from the systemic or environmental causes to the individual patients unconscious. Wilhelm Reich, the author of Character Analysis, a psychoanalytic landmark, and one of Freud's brightest students, was ostracized from the psychoanalytic community because he refused to backpedal in regard to similar sexual issues, while Freud saw fit to alter his original hypothesis in deference to social concerns.
These, issues of recognition and disavowal point towards an understanding of the title, "...necessary fictions that allowed us to see and explore truths that could only be looked at obliquely" (6). These necessary fictions represent ways in which in quotidian life we deal with the unspeakable, the paradoxes, and hypocrisy we encounter as we move through our day. Without which, we would find socialization intolerable, every eye me met would be a liar, a murderer, a cheat, or worse. What is important to recognize is that these necessary fictions are fictions, and when enough stories are told which are directed at pulling the facade off and revealing the dis?honesty that perpetuates the myth of reality or truth, the fictions will no longer be necessary. Memory is a plastic entity, the subtitle of this paper refers to a sensational book that helped to fuel the debate on recovered memory and it's relation to ritual abuse. "...Absences and confusions are the hallmark of all remembrances. Memory is an incomplete and fragile process" (49). The reason it was so easy for Freud to alter his hypothesis of childhood sexual abuse. to adolescent sexual fantasies rests in the malleability of the medium. Memory is little understood and less accepted in waking consciousness as being representative of authentic experience. Michelle makes it very clear that even though her experiences were "corroborated by family members" she approaches them (the necessary fictions or stories which connect the dots of her memory) with a sane pinch of both skepticism and fear." " Their ambiguity, their uncertainty, should always be honored" (140).
One of the most appealing aspects of the text is in the Necessary Fictions section where she tells five stories, three of which relate her "body memories" which brought about the recollection of her experience of incest. In each instance of psychosomatic illness there is a direct connection to death. In the first she surreptitiously discovers the immanent death of a friend through AIDS, which triggers severe asthma. In the second she seeks to kill herself because of the metaphoric death of name loss because of matrimony. Her only reason for going through with it is the dream of her grandmother's wish to see one of her grandchildren married before her death. The third is directly related to her experience of sexual assault and her inability to tell her story, which translated into fecal retention.
What is most striking about each is the ending. They each deal with divergent times in a life. Consequently their observations are tempered with the environmental influences evident at those moments, The first, which actually relates her coming to awareness of the incest ends with, 'The story is ... I've been sexually abused as a child (107). The second details a fear of flight, which through an encounter with a hypnotist helps to elucidate an unconscious response to the question of that incest. Her connection to death is traced to her "seamless" relationship with her Grandmother, it ends with, "The story is...I've been mothered too tight" (113). This also has a direct correlation to her relationship with her mother, and the lack of a mother's perspective in the film Daughter Rite. The next relates her experiences in college, her engagement, and her attempt to kill herself because of a "nervous breakdown", it ends with, "The story is...I'm crazy" (127). The story of her sexual abuse is seen in the next necessary fiction. This relates her experiences with fecal impaction and the secret she could not tell. It ends after relating the oral rape by her Grandfather with, "There is no story- (136). The last fiction is as close to a "happy ever after" as one can get in regards to the subject matter. It ends with an optimism that is probably lost on many, but nonetheless well established throughout the text.
"The story is..."(140).